New Year's Resolutions for CASAs
1. I will never make a promise I can't keep. This includes letting my
youth know that I am a Mandated Reporter and that I will be assigned to
him as long as he is a Dependent of the Court (unless I have to leave
for personal reasons).
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The Holiday Blues
The holidays. What a great time of year. At least it is if you have a
happy family and know that someone will buy you that perfect gift. Does
that sound like what's in store for your CASA kid? Not likely.
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Emancipation Preparation
Many of the children in the CASA program are teenagers, and many of these
teenagers will emancipate (become independent of "the system") when they
are 18 years old or soon after. If you are a CASA for one of these teens,
the following information may help you and your teen prepare for emancipation.
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Working with Teens
Twenty percent of SFCASA volunteers are assigned to youth between the
ages of 15 and 19. That means that about twenty percent of you are actively
trying to help teens cope.
Most teenagers feel very strongly that they should be able to do what
they think is right for themselves. They may want to drop out of school,
have a baby, join a gang, or engage in other high-risk behaviors like
drug use and sexual promiscuity. They may even want to reunify with their
highly dysfunctional family and continue a pattern of substance abuse
and criminal behavior into another generation. A CASA must form a strong
alliance with a youth before he or she can be accepted as a voice of wisdom
rather than one of judgment. This is the first task of a volunteer assigned
to a teen. It is often the one that is most difficult to accomplish.
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CASA Kid Goes to Basketball Camp at Lake Tahoe
My CASA boy, whom I'll call Joey, is a seventeen-year old who has been
living in group homes. He got the thrill of his lifetime this summer.
Through the efforts of Matt Galvin, Leslie Adams and Jessica Brown from
a local, private high school, and some help from CASA Sunshine and Daydreams
funding, he was able to attend the Super Skills Basketball Camp at Lake
Tahoe.
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According to Our Bond: Defining Stages in the CASA / Child Relationship
As a Court Appointed Special Advocate, you face a paradox at the very
heart of your relationship with your child. On the one hand, you must
form a strong attachment so that you can speak for him or her in court.
On the other hand, you must remain neutral and objective so that you can
separate from her at the end of the case without causing heartache or
loss.
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Effects of Abuse on Children
The effects of abuse, neglect, and sexual molestation are different for
each young victim. The age of the child, how the child interprets the
behavior towards him or her, the child's survival instinct, whether there
is a significant other person who might provide a positive model for the
child, the extent and consistency of the harmful adult behavior: these
are factors which influence the child's eventual reactions to abuse and
neglect.
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Fetal Alcohol Syndrome and Reactive Attachment Disorders
Fetal Alcohol Syndrome babies are born with distinct facial characteristics
created by the effects of alcohol on the bones as they are forming on
the 19th or 20th day of pregnancy. Fetal Alcohol Effect (FAE) babies are
born with other problems (especially neurological) but do not have the
facial signs. They may have an IQ anywhere from 30 to 130, but are likely
to have such problems as an unusually small head, stunted growth, hyperactivity,
distractibility, explosive temper, difficulty forming relationship, and
specific learning disorders.
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Street Gang Dynamics
We will try to address issues of importance to parents, teachers, counselors,
and other interested persons in attempting to understand the growing menace
of street gangs. Information from many locales across the nation was utilized
in the investigation of America's own "Guerilla Warfare in the Urban
Streets."
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Suicide Prevention
Loss is the number one trigger to suicide. Clearly the children, parents,
and professionals we work with every day experience extraordinary losses.
Therefore I thought it might be helpful for me to write an article for
our advocates. I encourage you, if you have not already, to find out what
your local suicide prevention number is and to identify others in the
community who have received training in assessment so that you can pass
that local information on to your volunteers.
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Avoiding CASA Burnout
What Is Burn-out?
You recognize burn-out by the way you feel inside: tired; discouraged,
flat, hopeless, maybe even numb. Your sleep may be disturbed by anxiety
dreams: cars going out of control, oceans threatening to overwhelm you,
houses with empty rooms that you've forgotten about, small animals needing
care.
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Books Help
Talking with CASA Volunteer Steve Boullianne recently, I was reminded
of how powerful books can be in a child's emotional life. Steve had been
talking with his 11-year old CASA boy's teacher about how "Joey"
was doing in school. The teacher remarked that Joey had become particularly
interested in one book, which told a story about a boy who watched a mean
man hurt two smaller children. The hero of the story then managed to punish
the bad man. Not surprisingly, this story closely replicates some events
in Joey'slife. Of course, Joey was never able to beat up the bad man who
had abused his cousins, but the story helped Joey deal with both his wishes
and his fears.
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Clothing Allowance
Have you ever wondered about the rules and regulations concerning your
childs clothing allowance? Kris Niiyama, former SFCASA Case Supervisor,
checked with an Eligibility Worker at the Department of Human Services
to learn how the system works.
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Writing Your Court Report
Call your minors Child Welfare Worker (CWW) and attorney when you
are preparing your report to let them know what you plan to say. Ask the
CWW for a copy of his/her report (he/she will receive a copy of yours).
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What is a De Facto Parent
De facto parent status is a legal device that gives an individual the
right to be notified of hearings for a particular child in Dependency
Court and to participate with their own attorney when appropriate.
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Educational Advocacy
Foster Youth Services Program (FYSP) has been established as a collaborative
effort between the Juvenile Court, the Department of Human Services, and
San Francisco Unified School District. The mission of FYSP is to better
meet the specific educational needs of foster youth. Through academic
case management, database development and advocacy, the program will improve
the chances for foster childrens academic success.
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Advocating For Educational Services for Your CASA Child
At SFCASA, we stress three areas of advocacy for the children whom we
serve. The first and most important is for a safe and permanent home.
The second is for regular health examinations and treatment, including
dental and mental healthcare. The third is for appropriate educational
services. As an SFCASA volunteer, you will be asked to learn all that
you can about your child's school placement and performance.
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Foster Children's Rights
The National Center for Youth Law has published an informational pamphlet
entitled "My Rights in Foster Care," designed to give children
basic information on their rights regarding legal proceedings, foster
care placement, health care and education.
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Getting Past Disappointments
Whether you knew it or not, when you chose to become a CASA volunteer,
you chose to look straight into the face of the most painful truths of
our society. The child to whom you are assigned did not choose the circumstances
of his life. He is instead shaped by the bad things that have happened
to him, as well as by any love and care that have come his way.
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Independent Living Skills
It is imperative to get your youth prepared for emancipation and this
is where Independent Living Skills comes into play. ILS strives to prepare
youth to become independent, to equip them with the necessary living skills
to survive once they are no longer dependents of the court. ILS programs
will now be provided through the Department of Human Services and the
Community College Foundation.
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Love and Sex
Sixty percent of all teenagers in California are sexually active and,
technically, all of them are breaking the law.
Yes, it is against the law in California for minors to have sex, or for
anyone over 18 to have sex with a minor unless they are married to him
or her. Therefore, even if minors are in love and are choosing to be sexual
together, the act is legally considered to be rape. It is legally impossible
for a minor to consent to sexual intercourse.
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CASAs As Mandated Reporters
As a CASA volunteer you may find yourself in a position to observe and
hear matters which families wish to keep private. Your desire to respect
their privacy may be in conflict with your role as a mandated reporter
of child abuse and neglect.
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Volunteer Rewards in Tax Law
CASA volunteers are working to help kids, not to take tax deductions.
To help reduce your taxes, however, these hints about deductions are available
to volunteers. CASA Volunteers can deduct certain expenses directly related
to their volunteer work on their tax return.
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Advocating For Your Child In School
Before you approach the school, you should establish a cordial and trusting
relationship with the minor and his/her caregivers. Let them know that
you intend to get in touch with the school to make sure that your minor
is receiving all needed services. Some families become defensive and resentful
of the intrusion. Use all the tact you have to maintain trust. Be sensitive
to the familys educational expectations, which may be different
from your own.
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Tackling TruancyOne Child At A Time
What do you do when you learn that your child is late for school almost
every day, or that he misses school two or three times a week?
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Taking Your CASA to Your Home or Office
Every month or so, we get a call from one of you who wants to know if
you can take your CASA child to your home. You usually have a good reason
to want to do this to practice on the computer, start a gardening
project, to have a place to meet that is warm and comfortable these
are all very valid and wonderful ideas. But taking your minor to your
home is strictly against the rules.
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Volunteers in Court
Please follow these procedures when appearing in court to advocate for
your child.
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Youth Perspectives on the Child Welfare System
Have you ever thought about how your CASA child felt when he was removed
from his home?
In a recent series of Focus Groups conducted by the California Youth
Connection, foster youth from all over the state of California were asked
about their experiences in the child welfare system. Statewide Coordinator
Janet Knipe reports that, "More than anything else, the youth objected
to the lack of information they were given about what was going on, why
they were being removed, and what was going to happen to them." (Reshaping
Child Welfare Policy: Youth Perspectives. California Youth Connection
Focus Groups Report, 1997.)
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